Adriana Chiruta
THE KISS GAME
play it for more love
WARNING:
THIS GAME FOR COUPLES IS A POWERFUL FORMULA
FOR ENDLESS SEDUCTION AND DEEP, MEANINGFUL CONNECTION.
PREPARE, YOU AND YOUR PARTNER, TO BE CAPTIVATED AND TO TRANSFORM YOUR BOND INTO A WORK OF ART!
Do you need more
LOVE?
Do you need more
wholehearted and synchronized
YESes
helping you both
create a durable space of
shared joy, emotional safety,
deep relaxation and glimpses of ecstasy?
Would you like
to find out
some ways
of growing
your love
so you can
bloom together in it
in all your magnificence?
Whether you are thrilled by a new connection or tempted to reignite the fireworks of passion in an enduring bond, are you ready to say a powerful
YES
to mutual complete trust, radical kindness and other ingredients for thriving intimacy and deep contemplative communication even beyond words?
All relationships start with a lot of YESes and end with
a lot of NOs.
In Gottman`s Love Lab, the second longest experiment ever conducted on relationships, couples were categorized as either masters or disasters, depending on the tensions, the NOs, they had in their bodies in the presence of each other.
For sure noone wants to turn into a disaster and be swollen by the waves of nowadays high rate of separations, loneliness, absurd conflicts and broken relationships with sad endings.
Aren`t there enough wars already?
We shouldn't extend them in our intimate lives, should we?
Are
Are you ready to say a decided
NO
to any power and control games and to misunderstandings and to lack of appreciation that brings loneliness instead of togetherness and diminish too often even big loves till they turn into broken stories?
This easy and pleasurable training for more love
will help you discover and embrace each other's
valid YESes and NOs,
free from fear or the need for power or control.
It will guide you to become masters of love, multiplying the legitimate YESes and gathering evidence that love is the ultimate power on Earth.
But why do we even need LOVE?
The only remedy for a toxic culture is a culture of appreciation, acceptance and love.
In our world of growing conflicts and wars, in which we are trained too much for competition, division, solitude
YES only LOVE
can heal and save us.
But do you think a fresh and healthy start in a happier, longer and intense love scenario is possible now? For you and your beloved?
Do you need it?
Let me share with you
my recipe for more
LOVE!
Because despite the fairytales that enchanted our childhoods,
we know, as adults, that
LOVE & happy ever after
never fall from the sky.
To flourish longer and extend the life of those first butterflies irresistibly massaging our bellies,
along with the sensation of our hearts
growing in our chest, flooding our brains
with exciting hormones, love needs attention
to the quality of the ingredients we put into its circle.
WHAT is THE KISS GAME about?
THE KISS GAME is one of the few 100% collaborative games today.
I designed it for those who believe the world needs more training for love and less for blind hate,
competition and wars.
It is a Love Lab and a durational art experience for couples ready to embrace each other’s splendor.
Each card contains an exercise inspired by the best trainings in oriental and occidental performing arts for
active relaxation, presence, trust, support, empathy
and togetherness.
Being an art/science experiment, all practices are designed to enhance certain ingredients that contribute to happy relationships, as revealed by major studies on couples.
Wondering if there are, as the cherries on the cake, any embodied poetry from Taoism, Tantra, or Kashmir Shivaism?
Yes, there are.
I will guide you and your partner through the game ensuring you get the full experience and enjoy every moment of it
with practices such as:
KISSING EYES
WHO ARE YOU?
I WOKE UP AS YOU
THE LOVING RAIN
MAAAAH
LIQUID BODY
THE BREATH OF A SMILE
COLLECTING PLEASURES
ANCESTRAL FISHES
KISS
until you enlarge your love enough to keep you both safe and happy.
THE KISS was first a video work presented in 2025 at Lentos Kunstmusem Linz, Austria in Touch Nature curated by Sabine Fellner, in 2024 in Touch Nature curated by Alex Radu and Sabine Fellner at SAC, Bucharest and in PAV 2022 Sibiu produced by Dan Perjovschi in the frame of DOCUMENTA 15. It is also an extension of LOVE AS POLITICAL POWER, an audio installation presented in PAV 2022 and at Suprainfinit Gallery Bucharest as part of LOVE AS POLITICAL POWER or how to rewrite our future with our own breaths in TRIUMF AMIRIA. The Museum of Queer Culture 2022.
After completing THE KISS GAME, players become Masters of Love. Their kisses will fuel a future artwork, mapping the sparks of love and standing strong against the growing maps of conflict and war across the globe.
A global community of Champions of Love will emerge, gathering evidence that love is the ultimate power on Earth.
Couples of all ages and also couples from the LGBTQ+ community are warmly welcomed to play THE KISS GAME.
